Ask Me: Education | Resources for parents and other adults

Thank you so much for taking the time to write to your child’s school as part of the Ask Me: Education campaign. By speaking up, you are not only advocating for your own child’s needs but also standing with thousands of other grieving children and young people who deserve to be feel seen, understood and supported in their learning environments.

Below you can find everything you need to talk to your child’s education setting about the Ask Me: Education Manifesto and Bereavement Plan, and also a template letter to help you spread the word far and wide.

Ask Me: Education Bereavement Plans and information

Bereavement Plan for children up to age 7 (completed by an adult)

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Child booklet for children up to age 7 (completed by the child, guided by an adult)

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Bereavement Plan for children aged 7 and over

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FAQs for parents on Ask Me: Education

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How to encourage your child's education setting to implement the Ask Me: Education Manifesto and Bereavement Plan

Template letter/email for parents/carers

To share with your child's school, college or university.

Template letter/email for adults bereaved as a child

To share with your local school, college or university.

Tips on how to speak to your child's education setting

Why does Ask Me: Education matter?

Ask Me: Education Manifesto

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