Explaining funerals to children: what happens at a burial?

Funerals can be a challenging subject that many people find difficult to talk about. This short animated film aims to explain in a clear and honest way what happens at a burial to help answer some of your child's questions and allay any concerns they may have so they are more prepared for what will happen on the day.

If you need further guidance around explaining funerals to a child, our Helpline is here to take calls and respond to Live Chat, 9am-5pm Monday-Friday.

This animation was kindly funded by F. A. Albin & Sons, family funeral directors, established over 230 years.

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